DTA: Don't Trust Anybody

First of all I should make it clear that what I am going to write is not to point anyone out...

Lately in journey of life, I (Infact everyone at some point of life) have realized that trust is one of the very vital aspects of life.... And it is also a very tricky one on the same side... Its like you can't trust everyone but on the same point you have to trust everyone.... You just can't do everything on your own.....

I don't say that don't trust anyone as written on the Title, I say trust everyone but on the same time be prepared to find it broken... I mean if you are depending on someone, always try to keep a backup.....

And its not only in case of others but it applies on you also.... I mean ur ownself... For example u decide to do something for someone and when u r doing it u may realise that work may affect u in bad way... U may break the trust of that someone to save urself....

In the end what i feel is that even if we can't control other peoples decision but in your own case, try to keep up the trust... because no sound comes if trust is broken but it pains alot....

Apprehensions....

Many times in our lives we avoid talking or contacting people anticipating that the other person will take it in wrong way. Sometimes we do this to people who are very close and dear to us. Why? Why don't we realise that its always better to open up instead of keeping things inside.

What i feel is that relations are like standing on a bridge. There may be gaps and distance but one should remember that in the end the bridge is connected. Its us who has to decide that should we walk in opposite directions or towards each other. When as a human we apprehend something we should remember that what you think may be wrong. One should have confidence in the relation you are having.

Its a universal fact that humans think to avoid hurting a specific person only if that person so close to you. You give a damn to people whom you don't care. My question is, if you love that specific person so much its obvious that this person also cares about you. So why to be afraid of talking and telling what you feel. The relations work good if it has trust and faith....

Don't you think that Apprehensions is one of the root causes in conflicts in life.....

Dreams

Sometimes, when a song is being played we try to njoi the music which is goin....

nd very rarely we concentrate on the lyrics.... No reasons that these days many songs come which have very abstract lyrics... means nothing.....

I was listening this hindi song from a new released movie... not so promoted but a song which tells you whats happening.... Read the lyrics....

Jo tujhe jagaaye
Neendein teri udaaye...Khwab hai Saccha wahi

(this is the song... this won't say anything... but the lines in between tells us something... Read on...)

Manzilon pe tyohaar hai
Lekin woh haar hai
Kya khushi apno ke bin

Hai adhoori har jeet bhi
Sargam sangeet bhiAdhoora hai apno ke bin
Khwabon pe badal Chaney do lekin
Rishton ki lok bacha ke barasna

Today when everyone is concentrating on their jobs and goals, we forget why we are doing this... When we were studying, we want to grow up, be successful and earn for our happiness and our family... But do we do this....?

Today people are so busy with profession and their targets that the sole purpose was to bring happiness to your family.... You buy million dollar gifts for your family, if you are not there to share the smiles when they see those gifts, it is worthless...

When you are running to top, remember that once you reach there you shouldn't be alone...

It feels like shit to be always misunderstood...

How many times have you ever undergone a situation, when whatever you say or do comes "Boom" back on you...? I mean you say something which might be useful or good. But its considered that you are trying to make fun or just trying to insult sumone.... You joke and its a fault... and if you r serious you are trying to be bossy...

Phew... Thats bad... Really bad.... People who always took your suggestion now think you are going to use the opportunity and kick their ass.... Even the closest pal thinks that you are just not fine... and avoids talking to you... Don't know then why do we have freinds and near and dear ones... When you are in need of help, you know you have some problem, they know that you have some problem then why don't they stand next to you and help you to stand up instead of pointing finger on you and inform you that " You have changed". I know, but tell me how? on what juncture did I hurt you.... On which point....? or whateva I am saying are the poisonous arrows piercing you throughout your body....? If its that so, then kick me out.... or just tell me my faults....

Because it hurts when you are told, that i know you have a problem, you know you have a problem... and then a silence....

SOrrY....

I see that this word SORRY is being used quite commonly these days.. Ppl dnt realise that they are using this word for apologising. Its just become an habbit.. We have lost the feelings of apology when we utter this word.. Said a bad word, say "Sorry" Hit someone say "Sorry". Did not go on time say "Sorry" . Cant help out someone when that person is asking for help say "Sorry" Its become like U give someone a tight slap without any reason and Say "I AM SORRY". Its become an easy way out to run away from troubles caused by our mistakes... Ok its not bad to say sorry...but then one should realize the true meaning of this word.. I was just thinking about this word what must it be meaning... May be its a combination of words together... So I put it this way....

S- sincerely
O- offering apology
R- right from my heart
R- realising my mistake and truly apologising to
Y- you, with a promise to try not to commit that mistake again...

I guess life has become tooo mechanical... we dont even realize that in a day how many people we hurt...but then ya, we too are humans and humans do make mistakes...The only thing is that we must realize the true meaning of this word... That will help our heart to be at peace...!!

Remember when we say something we should mean it... Because if we don't people don't rely on our words....

Happy Republic day

Happy Republic Day
26th Jan was a day when I heard a lot of that. Everyone wishing Happy Republic Day to whomsoever he/she is meeting... It’s good to know that people love their country. But do we really mean it?

That’s where I was stuck. I asked myself this question. What are my duties as Republican? Leave duties, I asked few people who wished me Happy Republic Day. What happened on 26th January? All answered that our country became Republic. Good. But sadly, very few knew that constitution of India came into effect on this date. And most of them thought that our country became republic on 26th Jan’ 1948 after we got independence. Very few knew it was in year 1950. When told, i heard chod na yaar... kaunsa number milne hain.... Very few know who made our constitution.

I feel sad for the martyr’s who laid their life to give us a life of respect and dignity. And what are we doing, just disrespecting the sacrifices given by them. We watch US president taking oath, but we don’t have time to know about our own country.

I know writing this won’t change anything but even if a single person reads this and think over, its more than enough.

Welcome

Hi

I thought to start my blog with a welcome note... for me and to those who accidently may go thru this blog...

Welcome guys... and gal if any (i don't like discrimination). I created this blog to just write down the things that come to my mind... sometimes i think alot (no.... i am not crazy) So i asked myself, why don't i write it on a blog... By chance if ppl read it then i can get a feedback on what I think....

So lets start blogging...

all the best to me and you guys out there reading this blog....